Monday, February 8, 2016

The Male Gaze & Patriarchy


            As described by John Berger in Ways of Seeing, the male gaze is the power men have over women by the way she appears to others, especially men themselves yet also the way she views herself based off of the males gaze upon her.  Women are the objects for men and to be born a woman is to be born into the “confined space into the keeping of men” (Berger 46).  Everything a woman does is for the male and his ability to survey her. Her own image of herself is for the man, basically describing when Berger states that a woman is considered the “surveyed” and the one doing the surveying (the male) is the “surveyor” (Berger 46). She must always watch the things she does and how others look her at because that is shown as the success of her life. “Men act and women appear” also comes from John Berger’s work describing the idea that men are suppose to look at women and identify them as objects. Women themselves are suppose to appear and allow themselves to be looked at (Berger 47).  In this way she objectifies herself because the surveyor has the advantage of looking at her, the subject. Angelina Jolie, a fairly incredible and prosperous woman who is suppose to be this fearless heroine in the movie Tomb Raider is shown in this photo with an unlikely attire for a "hero". 
Angelina Jolie, Tomb Raider 
Bernard Berenson, at the age of 90, looking at sculpture in the Borghese Gallery, Rome, Italy], 1955
            In pop culture even in today’s society it is prevalent throughout the media and news showing how women are constantly exposing themselves to the public in the forms of nude photos, skimpy movies where they show sex scenes, moments of nudity, and sex tapes. For example, followers of the famous Kloe Kardashian have seen her recent Instagram photos of her posing nude with her nipple showing. This shows how women are still objectified and sadly are allowing themselves to be by being nude in front of everyone. This also goes back to John Berger’s piece where he explains that later around the Renaissance period the subject, known as women were aware of being seen by a spectator and this opened the door for even more criticism. Back then in a painting by Tintoretto, the subject Susannah was looking at herself in a mirror. This in a sense provided validation for the “male gaze” because she was looking at herself in the mirror. And because she looked at herself it gave permission and allowed men to not feel bad for looking at them. Just like today, women give men permission to look at them in that way by posting nudes on social media and exposing their nakedness to the public. “Nakedness reveals itself. Nudity is placed on display” is something that Berger states in his writing to show how nudity differs from naked because with nudity you are being naked in front of others and not seen as yourself (Berger 54). The only difference between the old times and todays society is that women weren’t able to show their sexuality because that would mean that the women had the power over men and that was not tolerated. So sexual features such as hair on a woman’s body was not permitted.

Kloe Kardashian, Instagram photo from photo shoot
 Both the "male gaze" and patriarchy go hand in hand. Patriarchy also known as the “man line” or “father in charge” is described as a political- social system that basically says that males are the dominant and superior gender over everyone, especially females. They are expected to rule over the weak and insubordinate through forms of mental and physical dominance. We learn this idea as children that men are suppose to be the protector of the household and of the family and if he cannot protect then he is deemed weak and not a man. As learned from church, God created man to rule the world and he himself was a man. The women were suppose to come second to the man and to support them. The author of The Will to Change, Bell Hooks describes her childhood with her brother and how she is the one who always challenged patriarchy. Her story tells us about her hands on experience of patriarchy in her own household and how she wasn’t able to play the “boy’s game” of marbles (Hooks 20). And when she didn’t listen she was punished for it through violent rage. It’s hard for everyone to deviate from the idea of patriarchy because it had been embedded in our minds since we were children. And though women are still challenging men’s authority in competition with things such as jobs, the idea of women being subordinate to men will always be present through art and media such as movies and tv shows. They show men taking charge in difficult situations as if women cannot handle their own. “We must all change.” is the last phrase hooks uses in her piece that I believe is the truth because it isn’t only up to just one gender to change the way we think. 
Lidia Wylangowska, oil painting of merry and cheerful girl

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